They literally tried that in the thread I linked as an example, and said poster turned it down.
And yes, the way you go about things and the tone you take with others is important, at least if you want them and others to be receptive to your ideas. It’s not good enough to be right… let alone to assume the worst and not be right, or castigate people who agree with you, just because they didn’t do it fast enough.
If you want to discuss this further with me personally, the forum seems to be suggesting a private message, which is probably a good idea (though honestly I don’t have much to add).