I recently joined Wolfery after seeing an ad on FA. I’ve had lots of fun and plenty of people seem friendly and approachable in various scenarios. The place seems interesting and I love the tag system and the ability to check out what to expect from characters and players beforehand. I think it’s a core feature in creating a safe space that’s also sex positive and kink friendly.
However, in my short time here I’ve noticed a slightly unsettling trend of people adding dislike tags and then using the custom description to write something along the lines of “Ewwwwwww”, “That’s nasty” or “WTF is wrong with you” (paraphrasing). This is really alienating to see even if those specific tags don’t apply to my personal preferences in any way. Maybe I’m just too empathetic to people who they might apply to, and the tags I’ve seen those comments on aren’t even extreme kinks.
Are there really no rules or guidelines on what should go into custom tag descriptions to create a positive interaction environment? What should be done, if anything, when someone sees a character pop into the online list with something like that on there?